Am I responsible for how you feel?

You don't have to understand, I am just taking care of myself.

During the pandemic, when we were lucky enough to be stuck in the same house for hours on end, I felt like my personal time was spent explaining my actions to others. I mean, let’s be real. I probably spent the time in my head mulling over feelings of guilt and shame in how I felt other people were judging me. They probably were not even thinking about …