BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS

BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS

I am a gaslighter

But can we change our patterns?

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Carissa Potter
Jul 26, 2021
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I did it again last night. I did this thing that I am not proud of. But somehow it is always my reaction when I am hurt…

In this essay, I talk about the complexities of being hurt, if acting to get what you desire is bad, and how you actually have more influence over other people than you think.

You did something that hurt me. And I couldn’t put my finge…

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