Self-sabotage, broadly speaking

Now that what I want is within reach, why can't I actually take it?

The crux of this article is that I always imagined self-sabotage to be something intentional, something you were aware you were doing. This week, I have been thinking about how this term could be applied to lots of situations in our lives. And how understanding how our current actions function might be helpful in reframing what might be effective for yo…