What I really want for Valentine's Day this year

Learning to self-regulate as an adult and a co-regulation exercise for Valentine's Day.

So I can think of nothing better, or nothing that I would personally want more, than to be with people I love in a relaxed state. For Valentine’s Day, this year, I asked for protected sex (more on that later, maybe). I want to feel close and connected and making that a priority is a gift for me. Just a little relaxed time together.

Being with people I c…