BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS

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Emotional Blackmail and Love

Emotional Blackmail and Love

Some notes on the conditional nature of being human.

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Carissa Potter
Nov 20, 2023
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I tell myself a lot of lies to get through the days. But I have been really focused on this one as of late:

“If you loved me, you would do this for me and you would want to do it.”

The “this” in this situation would be whatever I wanted. And the “want” would be you would want to do whatever I wanted because you loved me. And you wanted me to be happy.

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