Archive - BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS

I am a gaslighter

But can we change our patterns?

Jul 26, 2021 • Carissa Potter

I know this is hard, but I am still in.

A celebratory recommitment to each other and ourselves.

Feb 12, 2024 • Carissa Potter

What if they love you?

You have the power to choose your perspective. And so do I.

Mar 24, 2025 • Carissa Potter

"I miss the old you."

When someone says they miss who you were in contrast to who you are.

Jun 23, 2024 • Carissa Potter

How to know if you should de-friend someone?

& Life is Hard Book Giveaway!

Oct 24, 2022 • Carissa Potter

For when you need to look away...

making sense of avoidant behavior.

Jan 20, 2025 • Carissa Potter

Are we responsible for other people's emotions?

Finding balance with what we can and cannot control.

Nov 6, 2023 • Carissa Potter

On my last night with you.

Trigger warning: This is about the termination of my pregnancy.

Oct 4, 2021 • Carissa Potter

I am so lucky, but this is fucking hard.

On making art when no one asked you.

May 7, 2025 • Carissa Potter

When Letting Go Is Hard.

Wanting more than someone can give & disappointing others without fear

Dec 25, 2023 • Carissa Potter

I want to accept people as they are...

...but also respect my own needs.

Mar 18, 2024 • Carissa Potter

Who here is in couples therapy?

Trying to find a roadmap with directions to relational empowerment

Feb 11, 2025 • Carissa Potter

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